Thursday, 25 February 2016

The 10 Commandments Of 'The Playdate'

1) Thou shall try and organise it at anywhere other than your own house
No one wants a playdate at their own house. You have a fb message group where you all tentatively chat about a date, then someone mentions soft play, then you decide to meet round someone's house and no one wants to be the person to say "I'll host!"...

2) Thou shall reluctantly agree it's your turn
...after six months of never hosting someone suggests they all come to your's. You want to cry. But you say "HEY THAT SOUNDS REALLY FUN I CAN'T WAIT" and send an emoticon of love hearts and stars but really you want to send the one of a ladies face and a gun pointing to her head.

3) Thou shall clean the whole house with a baby wipe
Despite knowing full well your house is going to be filthy within three minutes of your guests arriving you hastily clean your coffee table with a baby wipe and have a good check for raisins squidged into the carpet.

 The best kind of play date. One not at my house

4) Thou shall not fume cross when guests are late
Your children have been waiting for their friends to come since 6am. And you are in no way shape or form F*CKING LIVID when they say they will be an hour late ("they will be here in a bit!" x 250).

5) Thou shall provide tea and cake for the parents
Strong tea and a cake is a requirement. You will laugh about how you wish it was gin. A little too loudly and for a bit too long.

6) Thou shall mainly discuss other halves, how knackered you are and reality TV
You will sit and moan about as many things as humanly possible. And get quite cross if your children aren't playing nicely together so you can't 'swear' moan.


7) Thou shall provide a kid friendly buffet and make sure everyone notices the pointless cucumber pieces
Your buffet is full of crap. Sausage rolls, cheese sandwiches, crisps and so on. But you ENSURE there is a tiny bowl filled with tomatoes and cucumbers to look like you are vaguely healthy. They are fed to the guinea pig the moment everyone leaves.

8) Thou shall not fume when your friend's child wees on the couch/empties hama beads over the floor/tips out ALL the Lego/pulls out every single toy/refuses to share and so on
You try to contain your rage as a tiny person that does not belong to you systematically ruins every room in your whole entire house. You roll your eyes and say "kids eh?" with a friendly chuckle. When really you want to shout "OH FOR GODS SAKE".

9) Thou shall passive aggressively say "'s OK!" when your friends make a half arsed attempt to tidy up. You wish to kill them
You do the dance of tidying up. You know the one where everyone offers. No one really moves. So you just resign yourself to doing it yourself.

I spy tiny tomatoes (#nevertobeeaten)

10) Thou shall wave off all the guests that stayed two hours too long and say "thank f*ck" your turn is over for a while
The sheer relief that it is all over for another few months is too much to handle. You survey the mess that has been created, start to pick the playdoh off the couch and vow to lock the Lego up next time.

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  1. �� yes to the being late! My lg has asd so being late is quite infuriating! They'll be here soon repeated every few seconds until they arrive and the tidy up dance, love it! We just provide chippy teas! Thankfully special needs children are picky eaters and that is ok in that instance ��

    1. Oh now bet that is so frustrating! Oh and you can't beat a chippy tea! x

  2. God yes to all of the above! Not just me that buys tiny tomatoes just to make buffet snacks look healthy then? My kids look at me like I have six heads when I offer them one (like a swishy healthy mum) and I have to tut and shake my head saying "are you a bit off your veggies today sweetheart?" Fnuurr! Brill post! :0) xx

  3. Number 8!!!!!!
    I once found poo after a playdate. It wasn't in the toilet and it wasn't my child's :(

  4. Aaagh! You've brought back some horrible memories. Why? Why do we put ourselves through this? I used to hate it when people turned up late and I always used to tell my own kid off when someone else's had been naughty. How unfair is that?

  5. The day my friend failed to turn up at all? I went completely mental! Seriously. Who does that to a friend without prior warning?! I remember this so well. And the baby wipes? Why did I ever stop buying them?! Nutter.

    1. Oh yeah that would have totally made me lose my shizzle! x


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